| Location | Maldon, Essex |
| Age | 51 years |
| Cause of Death | Fall |
| Date of Birth | 06/04/1955 |
| Date of Death | 11/08/2006 |
| Visitors | 1,451 since 13/12/2006 |
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Susan Pearl Kearns, 06/04/1955 - 11/08/2006 (aged 51)
Formerly known as Susan Trevallion & born Susan Martin.
Wife to Tony, Mum to Simon, Jon, James and Gary.
"Nanny Sue" to Amy, Owen and Jake.
Lived in Maldon, Essex for many years, with spells in Latchingdon and Burnham On Crouch, having grown up in the Hatfield Peverel area.
Susan died on the 11th August 2006 tragically & unexpectedly after an fall from a window at home. Due to the nature of her injuries revival attempts from her husband & paramedics failed. Her injuries did mean however that her passing would have been such that she would not have suffered.
We as sons were devastated with mum's passing, time seems to pass so quickly also although we do collectively have many good memories. I can only really speak personally on an emotional level as we all deal with these things in different ways. My mum though as I'm sure everyone would agree was a generous, caring person, easy to get on with, a good mum, a good wife & a good grandmother. All of her family miss her dearly.
Mum was troubled at times, indeed some people say she will be more at peace now. She did indeed worry greatly for her family & will always be treasured for this devotion.
I will always feel mum passed too soon, indeed I only had a chat with a close friend who had lost both parents a few days before mums passing. I stated then that I would not know how to deal with the loss of a parent. It's not easy & our heart & sympathies go out to anyone here that's lost anyone. Loss is a bitter pill to swallow.
I do have much happiness with thoughts of mum, I look at the clouds & see her face, sometimes imagine her giving advice or just being as nutty as the rest of us. My children were just a little too young at the time of mum's passing to realise what had happened, although my 3 year old at the time laid a single rose along with others present at the funeral, she was a proud nan :)
Rest easy mum, love forever from us all xxx
the 5th year ...
half a decade mum :( time flies eh ? went up to see you yesterday, saw Gary there when we arrived, did a 'lil bit of weeding, stuck up a pink windmill lols :) am sure you would appreciate that ... not the best of years overall, hope it's stress-free tranquillity for you tho' ... thinking of you and sending much love as always, sleep well mum Xxxxxxx
just a tribute from me to let you know you'll always be in my heart and i look forward to the day when we meet again all my love jonathan xxxxxx
the 4th year ... so much to catch up on !!!
Hey mum, four years tomorrow ... still missed loads by us all tho' am sure you know that anyway ! This year, been on holiday to the Isle of Wight, camping lols, who'd of thought we could get the tent up ;) As always so much has changed, life develops, the kids are fine as am I, a hardy lot we are mum ... Anyway time to nothing for you to worry about here, the "mum band" is still on, 4 years now, am impressed lols, and still serves as a reminder everyday of you :) take care, catch up soon Xxx
3rd year ...
Blimey mum time flies ! Hope you are enjoying the after-life of tranquility ? (well I hope it is lols) Around here it always seems to be one stress after another ... Life's had it's ups & downs this past year, I've not been to visit you for a while, I am sorry, it's always been hard, denial is easier than acceptance with all kinds of loss :( But it does not mean you are forgotten, my "mum band" is still just about attached to my wrist it serves as a daily reminder that life is precious, I just wish it could be happier sometimes you know ? Best be off, I've come over all emotional this year lols ! Love you, miss you too, 'til next time TTFN Xxx
2 years...
I didnt know you Susan, but today its become clear just how much you touched peoples lives.
Grief has filled the air today as many loved ones stop to remember you, i know you would be so proud of all your family.
I offer my condolences to all and i hope everyone remains strong as we all miss you so much!!
Love Stacey xxx
2 years on ...
Hello mum, 2 years on now & it really does not get any easier. People say it does but I never really thought it would. Yet more chnage this year, people come, people go, I always hate it when people go, cant be stopped. All change here again now, we live in Woodham ! I remember you bringing me here as a ickle one to shop at ASDA lols. Thats still here by the way, and now Jake lives here too. I think many predicted that life might turn out this way with the kids but all is well as I'm sure you can see from your vantage point. Am now 30 ! Catching you up gradually, it didnt really feel any worse or different even than 29.
Anyway, still missing you down here. I heard thru the grapevine that it was an open verdict into what happened, I'm glad the matter is closed now but my biggest sadness remains never really knowing what happened nor ever being able to say goodbye ... Still, life goes on.
We'll sign out for now. Be back sometime soon. Love always and the fondest of memories that wont ever leave.
Take care U, toodles, Simon & the kids xxx
Hello Susan!
Hope you had a nice birthday in heaven, i imagine you had an amazing Cake !
Simon's sitting in the room with me and he says hello, and he says he didnt forget your birthday, he's asking me to write this as he's busy dyeing Amy's hair!! She's now living with him, he's doing well and so is Amy, he's got a two bed apartment now! He's had to leave his job and start part-time in order to look after her, but he's happy...and although i didn't know you, I know you'd be proud of him and what he's acheived!
Simon often talks about you and i know he misses you so much...He thinks about you alot...You had such an affect on all who knew you.
(and just between us girls...you raised some lovely boys!)
God Bless You Susan
Thinking of you always,
lots of love,
Stacey, Simon and Amy
xxx
Cristmas 2007
hi mum, the year's rolled by quick, hope you are smileing, we all love and miss you,
all my love jon x x x
With love @ Christmas 2007
Hello mum, another year gone by ... Hope things are peaceful wherever you are right now. Almost xmas. Not doing it this year really, it's kinda sad but it's not been the same really since the last xmas me & the kids saw you last. I'm sure in time it'll get better tho' looking to move in the new year. Fingers crossed for me eh ?
Anyway best be off, will pop & visit you when I can.
With love @ Christmas 2007, miss you. Simon xxx
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